First Date: Females Got the Power

First Date: Females Got the Power

First dates always send the jitters down our spines and butterflies in the stomachs. But never ever give into cold feet. Women are the powerful ones in the date, so take that power and make use of it. Here are some first date tips for women that you might find useful:

1. Dress modestly. Yes, modestly. You and your partner already know that you’re hot, so there’s no need to run it into his face. Besides, you want him to respect you and like you for who you are and not for how well you look. Then again, it’s not a reason to dress down or have unflattering make-up. Just that you need to tone down on the sexiness on your dress. Wear something nice and comfortable that doesn’t reveal too much skin. You need to notch up the mysteriousness factor so that he’ll keep coming back for more.

2. Act nicely. Do not be too brusque, forward, or aggressive. Maintain decorum but don’t be a wet rag. Have fun and loosen up a bit, but don’t take too many liberties with him because it may cause him to think something else or think wrongly of you.

3. Pay Dutch. Now before you all throw rotten tomatoes, just read on. This is a FIRST date, meaning that you are, in no way, committed to each other and its better to keep it that way until things between you two are more defined. By paring Dutch, you establish the feeling that you do not owe him anything, so a second date is something that is still in your court.

First Date: Men, You are in Control

First Date: Men, You are in Control

First date already? Having the jitters? Well, that’s normal, even for guys. But one thing that you guys have to remember is that you are the man and you are the one wearing the pants, meaning that the control is strictly on your side. So here are some dating tips for men on how to make your first date, not only a successful one, but also one that you control.

Alright, first thing’s first is to plan the date, plan it well, and stick to the plan. Innovativeness and going with the flow are something that you should reserve for the succeeding dates because your first date needs to be planned and planned well. This dating tip for men is something that all men would do well to remember. Set up a time limit. Why? Because for one thing, you aren’t sure yet if you would like the woman you are dating. If you like the woman, they by setting up a time limit, you would be giving yourself and her something to look forward to the next time. If you don’t like your date, then if you have a time limit, you are not pressured to spend more time with her.

Do not expect anything. This is the first date tip for men that should be adhered to at all costs. You must not expect anything from your date. You should not expect a model or celebrity-look-alike to show up because your might get disappointed. And what’s worse, women have this keen ability to smell when a man is disappointed or not satisfied with her, so do away with expectations. Besides, if you don’t expect anything, it opens doors to pleasant surprises for you and your date.